I wanted to do an episode about all the ways to make your sex life exciting again, and I could not think of a better person to speak with about this topic than today's guest, Bianca Farmakis.
Bianca was a sex columnist for 9Honey, Channel Nine's Women's network, covering every taboo surrounding sex, sexuality, and gender under her column the Unsealed Section. Today, she’s freelancing on the topic and is currently a news journalist at News Corp Australia. She co-hosts Officially Unoffical with Natasha Larcos, a podcast featuring candid commentary on dating, sex, and other topics.
Together we tackle some of the touchiest questions related to spicing up your sex life.
Bianca shares with us how to figure out what is sexually pleasurable to you, how to talk about sex with your partner, and even what to do if you feel you might be sexually incompatible with your partner.
Listen in as we talk about kink, why you should have a #sexbucketlist, and the greatest lesson she learned talking about sex with her mother. I hope you love this conversation as much as I did!
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"Why fake an orgasm when you can say, hey, can you eat me out? Is that okay?" - Bianca Farmakis
Show Notes:
- What you can do to make your sex life exciting again
- Recommendations on how to figure out what is sexually pleasurable to you
- How to talk about sex with your partner
- What to do if you are sexually incompatible with your partner
- How to rekindle desire
- Types of sex
- Creating your own sex bucket list
- Is 'consent' in a marriage or long-term relationship relevant
- How many ways are there to have sex
“No two cases are the same. Everyone is confused.” - Bianca Farmakis
Links Mentioned:
- Mating in captivity by Esther Perel
- The 7 prinicples for making marriage work by John Gottman
- Connect with Bianca Farmakis:
Instagram | Twitter | LinkedIn | Farmakiss
The discussion continues over on social media follow TalkSex™ with Gabriela Rosa:
"Sex is every form of consensual touch and that's what we don't learn." - Bianca Farmakis